Dialectical Behavior Therapy · Southern Maine

When emotions hit like weather, DBT teaches you to ride them out

Dialectical behavior therapy was built for people whose emotions arrive fast and hard, the same overwhelm that so often sits underneath drinking and drug use. At Portland Treatment, DBT skills are woven through PHP, IOP, and outpatient care for clients across York and Cumberland County.

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Is DBT for you?

People usually find DBT when willpower has already failed them

If any of these sound familiar, DBT is worth asking about in your assessment. None of them disqualify you from treatment, they're exactly what the therapy was built around.

  • You use to come down from a feeling

    Rage, panic, shame, grief, the substance is the off-switch. DBT replaces the off-switch with skills.

  • Your emotions feel disproportionate to events

    Small conflicts spiral into hours of distress. That's not weakness; it's a nervous system that was never taught regulation.

  • You've relapsed after a blowup, not a craving

    If your last relapse followed an argument or a wave of shame rather than a party, emotion regulation is the missing piece.

  • You've hurt yourself to cope

    DBT was designed first for self-harm. It offers concrete alternatives for the moments when pain demands an exit.

  • Relationships keep detonating

    Interpersonal effectiveness training teaches you to ask for what you need and hold boundaries without burning bridges.

  • You've been told you're 'too sensitive'

    DBT calls this emotional vulnerability, and treats it as a trainable trait, not a character flaw.

The four skill modules

DBT is a curriculum, not a personality transplant

You learn it the way you'd learn anything physical: in sequence, with repetition, and with coaching while you use it on real life. Each module builds on the one before it.

  1. 01

    Mindfulness

    Notice the wave before it breaks

    The foundation everything else sits on. You practice observing a thought, urge, or feeling without immediately obeying it, the gap between trigger and action where recovery actually lives.

    In group: guided grounding, urge-surfing a craving to its peak and back down.

  2. 02

    Distress Tolerance

    Survive the crisis without making it worse

    Short-term, in-the-moment skills for the hours when you cannot fix the problem, you can only get through it. TIPP temperature techniques, distraction, self-soothing, and radical acceptance of a reality you didn't choose.

    In session: building your personal crisis plan, the literal list you pull out at 2 a.m.

  3. 03

    Emotion Regulation

    Turn the volume down over weeks, not minutes

    Longer-arc work: naming emotions accurately, reducing vulnerability through sleep, food, and movement, and acting opposite when a feeling is pointing you somewhere that ends in relapse.

    Between sessions: diary cards that track urges, emotions, and skill use so progress is visible.

  4. 04

    Interpersonal Effectiveness

    Get what you need without a wreck

    Scripts for the conversations that used to end in a drink: asking for help, saying no to using friends, repairing family damage, and keeping self-respect intact while you do it.

    In group: rehearsing the actual phone call or kitchen-table talk before you have to make it.

Dr. Benjamin Crocker, MD, psychiatrist and medical reviewer at Portland Treatment

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DBT vs. CBT

Two toolkits, one goal, and most clients use both

You don't have to choose between them. Your clinician draws from each depending on whether the moment calls for changing a thought or surviving a feeling.

 CBTDBT
Core targetThoughts, catching and testing the beliefs that drive useEmotions, tolerating and regulating the feelings underneath use
Best known forThe most researched therapy for substance use disorderSelf-harm, borderline personality disorder, and emotional overwhelm
Tools you'll useThought records, trigger maps, refusal rehearsal, behavioral experimentsDiary cards, TIPP skills, radical acceptance, DEAR MAN scripts
Feel of a sessionCollaborative detective work on your thinkingSkills class plus coaching, closer to a practice than a talk
At Portland TreatmentStandard in individual and group sessions across PHP, IOP, and OPStandard in individual and group sessions across PHP, IOP, and OP

Curious about CBT? Read about our CBT program →

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The evidence

Born in the research lab, built for hard cases

DBT didn't start as a general wellness trend, Marsha Linehan developed it for people other therapies were failing. Each source below links to the study or federal reference it comes from. Research describes group averages, not a promise about any one person's outcome.

Fewer opioid-positive tests

In a randomized trial of opioid-dependent women with borderline personality disorder, DBT produced significantly greater reductions in opioid use than comparison treatment, confirmed by urinalysis.

Source: Linehan et al., American Journal of Psychiatry (2002)

Cochrane-reviewed

A Cochrane review of 75 trials concluded DBT reduces self-harm and improves emotional regulation compared with treatment as usual in people with borderline personality disorder, a population with very high rates of co-occurring substance use.

Source: Storebø et al., Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews (2020)

NIDA-recognized

The National Institute on Drug Abuse lists DBT among evidence-based behavioral therapies, noting it was designed to reduce self-harm behaviors including drug use.

Source: National Institute on Drug Abuse, Principles of Treatment

DBT near Portland, Maine

Skills-based care twenty minutes from downtown

Finding a therapist trained in DBT is hard enough in Southern Maine; finding one inside an addiction program that takes your insurance is harder. Our Biddeford center includes DBT skills groups and DBT-informed individual therapy in every level of care, with no waitlist and no separate charge.

Clients come to us from Portland, South Portland, Saco, Scarborough, Westbrook, Old Orchard Beach, Kennebunk, and Sanford, and when the drive isn't workable, virtual sessions keep the skill practice going.

What a DBT week can look like here

  • Skills group: learn one new skill, review how last week's went in real life.
  • Individual session: apply the skill to your specific week, the argument, the anniversary, the paycheck.
  • Diary card: track urges, emotions, and skills used so you and your clinician can see the trend, not guess at it.
  • Coaching between sessions: support for using a skill in the moment it's actually needed.

Insurance

In-network with almost every plan.

Portland Treatment is in-network with Anthem, UMR/UnitedHealthcare, Aetna, Harvard Pilgrim, Martin's Point, TRICARE and MaineCare, Cigna is our only out-of-network plan. In-network means contracted rates, lower coinsurance and no balance bill. We verify your benefits free, in minutes, with no obligation.

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DBT questions

What is dialectical behavior therapy for addiction?
DBT is a skills-based therapy that teaches mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. It was originally developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan for people with intense, hard-to-regulate emotions, and it's now widely used in addiction treatment because emotional overwhelm is one of the most common relapse triggers.
Does DBT work for substance use disorder?
Research supports it. A randomized trial published in the American Journal of Psychiatry (2002) found DBT significantly reduced opioid use in opioid-dependent women with borderline personality disorder, and the National Institute on Drug Abuse lists DBT among evidence-based behavioral therapies. It works best combined with other treatment, including medication when indicated.
What's the difference between DBT and CBT?
CBT focuses on identifying and changing the thoughts that drive substance use. DBT focuses on tolerating and regulating the intense emotions underneath it. Most clients benefit from both, and our clinicians draw from each depending on what you're facing.
Where can I get DBT for addiction near Portland, Maine?
Portland Treatment includes DBT skills training in PHP, IOP, and outpatient programs at our Biddeford center, about twenty minutes from downtown Portland. It's part of your program, not a separate service or extra fee.
Do I need a borderline personality disorder diagnosis to benefit from DBT?
No. Although DBT was developed for BPD, its skills, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, help anyone whose substance use is tied to emotional overwhelm, trauma, or unstable relationships.
Is DBT covered by insurance or MaineCare?
Yes, in nearly all cases, because it's delivered as part of your treatment program. We accept MaineCare and most major commercial plans, and we verify your benefits for free with no obligation.

Sources & references

  1. 1. Linehan et al., American Journal of Psychiatry (2002)
  2. 2. Storebø et al., Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews (2020)
  3. 3. National Institute on Drug Abuse, Principles of Treatment
  4. 4. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), treatment overview

This page is educational and is not medical advice. Research findings describe group averages; individual results vary. If you are in crisis, call or text 988, or dial 911 for an emergency.

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